Inside: Follow these six steps to appreciating what you already have, and it will help you to find contentment and stop wanting more.
A guest post by Chloe Powell
Do you ever feel like no matter how much you buy, it’s never quite enough?
You finally get the thing you wanted, but soon after, there’s something else that catches your eye — another item that promises to make life easier, prettier, or more complete.
It’s an easy cycle to fall into, especially when we’re constantly surrounded by messages telling us that happiness is just one more purchase away.
However, any positive feelings you have from purchasing something new are short-lived. And before you know it, clutter and debt start to pile up. Always wanting more can drain your time, money, and energy.
Learning to appreciate what you already have is one of the most freeing parts of simplifying your life. It helps you step off the treadmill of constant comparison and find peace with what you have right now.
Find contentment by following these six steps to appreciating what you already have.
Why Does Shopping Feel Good?
Ever notice how shopping for something new gives you a little rush? That’s because it triggers the release of brain chemicals like dopamine, serotonin and endorphins, which are parts of your brain’s reward system.
Many people think these hormones show up after you buy something, but they kick in even earlier. Sometimes, the excitement starts before you even leave the house, just by imagining all the possibilities.
Retail therapy gives a quick, easy way to lift your mood, which is why it can easily become a habit you lean on when you’re stressed or bored.
The Hidden Costs of a “More is More” Mindset
Mindless shopping can make it feel like your happiness and success depend on how much stuff you have.
The truth is, that more stuff doesn’t make you happy and constant shopping carries consequences.
Personal and Financial Strain
Constantly buying things can put a strain on your wallet and peace of mind. Every time you make a purchase, that’s money you could have saved, invested or spent on experiences you truly enjoy.
Plus, with how easy it is to use credit cards or “buy now, pay later” services these days, it’s tempting to spend more than you have.
All that extra stuff can lead to stress and overwhelm, not to mention all the time you end up spending just managing your things instead of enjoying life.
There’s also pressure to keep up with trends and copy those curated lifestyles you see online, which can make you want more and more.
Environmental Consequences
Every item you buy has a carbon footprint. That’s the amount of greenhouse gases produced to make, ship and sell each item.
When you constantly buy new things, you contribute to increased pollution and more landfill waste.
Many people believe that recycling is the ultimate solution to their consumption habits. You diligently sort your plastics, confident that you’re doing your part for the environment.
However, it’s just a small piece of the puzzle.
The reality is that, in 2017, only 8.4% of plastics in the U.S. were recycled. With e-commerce being more popular than ever, the number might be even lower today.
What Are the Benefits of Buying Less?
Mindful consumption means finding contentment in what you already have and only buying new things when they represent an intentional, thoughtful purchase.
Being a mindful shopper brings the following benefits:
1. Appreciation for What You Have
When you stop always wanting something new, you start to appreciate what you have.
For instance, you might realize you don’t need to shop for clothes monthly because you already have so many great favorites in your closet.
2. Reduced Waste and Clutter
Buying less means there is less stuff to clean, organize and eventually throw out.
You’ll notice this right away — a tidier home can help you feel more organized. It frees up time and energy for people and experiences you care about.
3. A Shift in Identity
When you stop shopping on impulse, you start to see that your value isn’t about the brands you wear or gadgets you own.
Instead, you’ll find yourself appreciating the little things, like time with loved ones or moments spent on personal growth.
4. More Mindfulness
Being mindful about what you buy helps you live more intentionally.
Instead of chasing quick happiness from shopping, you can find joy in other activities like exploring new hobbies, spending time outdoors or simply enjoying some quiet time alone.
It’s about being present and making choices that fit your values.
6 Steps to Appreciating What You Already Own
The first step to mindful consumption starts with appreciating what you already own. Here’s how to practice it.
1. “Shop” Your Home First
Take a few minutes to inspect your home before shopping online or in-store. You might find clothes you forgot about or spot something you can easily repurpose for a new use.
The next time you need something, ask yourself first, “What do I already have that could do the job?”
2. Recall the Story
Many people’s prized possessions have stories behind them — a souvenir from their first international trip, a gift from their parents or an item they saved up to buy.
Take a moment to reflect on the origins of your items and the significance they hold for you. Sometimes, that memory is worth more than anything new.
3. Practice Gratitude for Your Possessions
Take time to notice and appreciate what your current possessions do for you — the durable jeans that fit you well, the smartphone that lets you take stunning pictures and the reliable microwave that saves you time.
Practicing gratitude daily can boost your physical and mental wellness. The next time you use something you love, give it a little mental thank you.
Making a habit of gratitude will help you to feel more content and makes shopping much less tempting.
4. Unsubscribe and Unfollow
Reduce temptation at its source. To be more intentional with shopping, unsubscribe from marketing emails and unfollow social media accounts that trigger your desire to shop.
You can also remove saved payment information to make checkout less convenient. When you need to get up and look for your card, you might decide it’s not worth the hassle.
5. Create a Simple and Sustainable Home
You can shop and be kind to the planet at the same time. Thrift stores are a great place to keep things out of the landfill and find treasures.
Learning simple repair skills, like sewing on buttons or mending small holes, can also help extend the life of your items, leading to less waste.
6. Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
Brands and social media love to show off perfect, filtered lives, but it’s not the whole story.
Remember that everyone is on their own journey, and you won’t find contement through comparing yourself with others or trying to keep up with someone else’s highlight reel.
Appreciating What You Already Have & Living With Gratitude
Being a more mindful shopper can free up your resources and mental space. When you make the switch, you might realize that what you already have is more than enough.
Try out these tips to spend less time worrying about what to buy next and more time enjoying what you have.
Chloe Powell, Senior Editor at Revivalist Magazine, shares her passion for women’s lifestyle through insights on beauty, wellness, and modern living. She loves having the opportunity to inspire readers to embrace balance, confidence, and self-expression in their everyday lives.
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